Last week Aaron DeLoach defined identity as “the truest thing about you”. This week, Aaron Tredway shared that identity is also whatever you think is the truest thing about you. Whatever you think is the truest thing about you (whether it is or isn’t true) has the power to define your identity. The Apostle Paul states in Ephesians 1 that if you are a Christ-follower, the truest thing about you is that you are “in Christ”. Since Christ has made you new, is this what most defines you?


11In Him we were also chosen, having been predestined according to the plan of Him who works out everything in conformity with the purpose of His will, 12in order that we, who were the first to put our hope in Christ, might be for the praise of His glory. Ephesians 1:11-12


Share with your group what you wrote on your name tag last week in church, and why you wrote it. (If you weren’t there, share what you would write if you were at a party and had to fill out a “HELLO, I AM…” name tag with something to identify you other than your name.)

Read Ephesians 1:11-12. The Greek word for “chosen” is klēroō and means “to obtain an inheritance”. What do you learn about your inheritance from the following verses?

  • Romans 8:17
  • Romans 8:22-23
  • Ephesians 1:13-14
  • Hebrews 9:15
  • 1 Peter 1:3-4
  • Revelation 21:1-5

The Greek word for predestined is proorizō and means “to determine before”. What do you think it means to be “predestined”? How comfortable are you with this doctrine that states that “that those who freely come to God are those whom God has freely chosen” (The Gospel Coalition)? Discuss why this doctrine is controversial to some believers.

What does it mean that God “works out everything in conformity with the purpose of His will” (Ephesians 1:11)?

Why were you chosen by God (Ephesians 1:12)? How can you live this out in your daily life?


Aaron stated that “We live like our identity is achieved; not received”. Has this idea that you are what you have accomplished influenced what you think is most true about you? If so, prayerfully brainstorm with your group ways you can correct this thinking.


2 Corinthians 5:17 says that “If anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come!” Read through the passages below and write what now identifies you in Christ:

  • John 15:15-16
  • Romans 6:18
  • Romans 8:1-2
  • Romans 8:37
  • 1 Corinthians 6:19
  • 2 Corinthians 2:15
  • 2 Corinthians 5:20
  • Galatians 4:7
  • Ephesians 1:5
  • Ephesians 1:11
  • Ephesians 2:10
  • Philippians 3:20
  • Colossians 1:22
  • 1 Peter 2:9-10


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